If you have an older relative with health issues, it may be time to get more involved in their care. As a person gets older, a supportive family member may have to play an important role in helping with health care decisions.
Here’s a handy list to make sure you have necessary information should an emergency arise:
Healthcare Contact Information
Keep the names and phone numbers of doctors and specialists on hand. If either parent is hospitalized, the primary care providers can be contacted for detailed health histories.
Current Medications
Having a list of current medications helps doctors avoid the risk of adverse drug interactions. Ask about prescriptions as well as over-the-counter medications, vitamins and supplements.
Insurance Information
Know the names of your parents’ insurance providers and their policy numbers to coordinate additional care after surgery or hospitalization. This also will help you file claims on their behalf, if needed.
Medical History
Keep a list of medical conditions, past surgeries and major medical procedures. The doctor will use information like this to make decisions about medical procedures and treatment options.
Known Allergies
Providing information to doctors about allergies to drugs or materials, such as latex, can be lifesaving.
Lifestyle and Habits
Know the specifics of your parents’ tobacco and alcohol use, exercise habits and diet. These details (and changes in their habits) give doctors a better picture of their overall health.
Privacy Information
Find out whether your parents have signed a form that allows their doctors and insurance companies to release their medical information to you. If not, ask them to sign privacy agreements to allow you access in emergencies.
Neighbor Contact Information
Ask mom and dad for the name and number of a neighbor who could be called on to check on them and alert you if there’s a problem.
Advance Directive Details
Get the details of your parents’ living wills and who is authorized to make healthcare decisions on their behalf. Have this conversation now instead of during a medical emergency.
Final Wishes
It’s a difficult conversation, but the information is essential. Explain to your parents that knowing their wishes will help you advocate on their behalf.